Things I Wish They’d Told Me About Women

Fabrizio del Wrongo writes:

This article got me thinking: Where relationships are concerned, is it possible that women are bigger fantasists than men? I’ve known quite a few gals who seemed to construct fantasies around me — that I was some kind of struggling artist, a soon-to-be significant person, a just-waiting-to-be-ultra-successful guy who had been held back by bad luck or lack of direction, and so forth. Apparently this was more fulfilling than facing the fact that I’m just a normal schlub who likes to relax, listen to old Gang of Four records, and have his balls played with once in a while. Over the years I’ve learned that you should never try to deflate a gal’s fantasies, especially the ones concerning you. She’ll just stop playing with your balls. Like Fox Mulder, girls want to believe. So maybe we should let them? For what it’s worth, I think gals want guys to fantasize about them as well. I once made the mistake of suggesting to a girlfriend that she quit stressing about school and her career, find a decent job she could tolerate, and just enjoy life for what it is — by which I meant a chance to have lots and lots of sex with me. After all, she wasn’t likely to figure out cold fusion or re-discover penicillin, so why get hung up on all of this approval-seeking shit? I might as well have told her that I hadn’t voted in the last presidential election (I hadn’t). She never looked at me in the same way again.

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“I Survived BTK”

Paleo Retiree writes:

Charlie Otero in New Mexico

Charlie Otero in New Mexico

Low-budget documentary about Charlie Otero, a Wichita native whose parents and a couple of whose siblings were murdered in 1974 by “BTK,” a Wichita-based murderer who went on to become Kansas’ most notorious serial killer. It’s a rarity — a serial-killer/true-crime doc focused not on the killer or the investigation, but on someone who has endured family members being murdered. When you think about it, it seems odd that the subject should be dealt with so seldom.

Marc Levitz’ film could be criticized for not being slick or clear enough — it’s sometimes hard to know who’s who, what order events happened in, why a behavior is being highlighted, even what’s being said. But I took it more as poetry than as history or journalism anyway — as something rather like “Be Here to Love Me,” Margaret Brown’s very touching movie about the Texas country-folk singer Townes Van Zandt. After all, if and when you want clearly presented facts, there’s always the web to turn to — Wikipedia and much else.

As an evocative thing, “I Survived BTK” is far more crude (even home-movie-esque) than the artful and delicate “Be Here to Love Me.” You might compare its style to strung-out, obsessive, garage band-style rock — there’s a lot of wailing and agitation, murk and muddle. But it’s also undeniably powerful. It’s about how losing loved ones to a horrific, stupid crime can fuck a life up. To all appearances a soulful, decent guy, Charlie has spent years wrestling with booze and drugs, and even in the best of times lives a motorcycles-and-trailer-homes, sub-blue-collar, lost-in-the-fringes kind of life. The movie’s turbulent messiness, even Levitz’s often lopsided organizational choices, convey how the emotions set off by such a crime (rage, hurt, sorrow, impotence) can make a life careen out of control.

A great stroke of luck for the filmmaker: as he was shooting his film about Charlie (mostly in New Mexico), the pyscho who went by the handle BTK was finally apprehended back in Wichita. So we get some glimpses of the murderer, and we get to accompany Charlie as he reconnects with his surviving siblings, returns to Kansas, attends court and copes with the tough new emotions the murderer’s arrest sets off. What a strange and hard hand of cards some people have been dealt.

FWIW, The Question Lady and I have both recently been struck by the same thought — that these new documentaries are now playing the culture-role that long reported pieces in Esquire, The New Yorker, Harper’s and Rolling Stone used to play: they’re enhancing the news by conveying what experiences we know mostly through headlines are actually like.

We watched “I Survived BTK” on Netflix Streaming. I see that it’s also available (for $3.99) on Amazon Instant.

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Linkage

Paleo Retiree writes:

    • Has the time finally come to end affirmative action?
    • Meet Stoya, favorite porn star of today’s hipsters. Safe for work — the link goes to a Village Voice article.
    • Although a majority of Americans want immigration rates reduced, one estimate says that the pending Senate bill, if passed, would result in more than 33 million people immigrating over the next decade alone. “The pending bill allows illegal immigrants to bring their overseas spouses and children into the country,” warns NumbersUSA. I sometimes wonder why we bother with borders at all. Link tks to Steve Sailer.
    • Foseti reads an unusual biography of Lincoln. I can recommend a Lamont Johnson-directed TV movie about Lincoln, as well as the Gore Vidal novel it was based on. I’m no Lincoln scholar, but both works struck me as unusually sophisticated about politics generally.
    • The Manolo knows just which shoes a getting-married-on-the-beach bride ought to wear.
    • Teaching multicultural values in school often backfiresWho could have foreseen such an outcome?
    • Russia: Awesomest country on earth.
    • Netflix Instant Movie Du Jour: Torremolinos 73, a droll charmer about a hapless couple who stumble into making porno films. Spanish filmmaker Pablo Berger may not develop his storyline as fully as one might want, but he has a sweetly offbeat touch as well as an infectious fondness for the 1970s. And his lead actors deliver performances that, in their combination of daring, frankness and comic control, are worthy of a Bertrand Blier movie. Candela Peña’s doleful expressions especially are something to treasure. Quiet, deadpan hilarity to the max.
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Inside the Walt Disney Concert Hall

Blowhard, Esq. writes:

Since Sir Barken Hyena was unable to get a look inside the Disney Concert Hall, I thought I’d post these pictures I took in December. Besides, while the exterior is famous, I usually see far fewer pictures of the interior.

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Notes On Two Early Films by Masaki Kobayashi

Fabrizio del Wrongo writes:

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“A Sincere Heart,” from 1953, demonstrates that Masaki Kobayashi’s gift for staging was evident very early on. In particular, his ability to invest spaces with emotional meanings, and to link them to other spaces via subtle visual cues, is sharp enough to recall Griffith. The plot concerns a carefree youth, named Hiroshi, whose life takes on new meaning when a dying girl moves in next door. Though the two never speak, they glimpse each other through their bedroom windows; like Fabrizio and Clelia in “The Charterhouse of Parma,” the intensity of their connection is inseparable from the teasing impossibility of their closeness (physical proximity aside, they’re from radically different social spheres). Kobayashi directs the hell out of the movie; there’s not a shot that feels out of place. That tightness of control extends to the score, which features a lot of Western-style music, some of it diegetic, and which is used both to link up the movie’s characters and evoke unseen wells of feeling (one tune continually evokes a dead family member). On some level the movie seems intended as Westernizing propaganda — it’s so thoroughly American in tone and decor that it often feels like part of the Andy Hardy series. It’s odd to see the great Kinuyo Tanaka in a rather small role as the boy’s mother. She’s terrific. So is Yuzo Ariga as the stern business-man father. Most of the movie’s problems cluster around Akira Ishihama, the actor who plays Hiroshi. He lacks the subtlety and depth to make the boy’s transformation understandable in emotional terms; Hiroshi starts out callow and mostly stays that way. Kobayashi also might be at fault — he seems unable to get into the young man’s perceptions and feelings, and so he contents himself with festooning the character with signifiers of angst (there’s a lot of boohooing). It’s not enough: Hiroshi’s love comes out of nowhere, and it remains thin in a way that defeats the movie’s theme of carelessness grown into soul. Is it possible that Kobayashi’s sensibilities were too self-consciously noble? A similar flatness of character dogged his epically scaled “The Human Condition,” which has Nakadai playing a man whose basic decency is never really challenged or expanded on.

Made the following year, “Somewhere Under the Broad Sky” corrects some of the problems which plagued “A Sincere Heart.” Akira Ishihama is again present, though here he’s not asked to shoulder the full weight of the movie’s emotional content; he blends happily into his surroundings. The milieu is that of a working-class Japanese family. It’s real slice-of-life stuff, substantially scrubbier than what’s depicted in “Heart,” and definitely more downbeat — it’s a snapshot of a country working its way through a fog of post-war bitterness.  At the center of that bitterness is Hideko Takamine, possibly Japan’s greatest film actress, playing a single woman on the cusp of spinsterhood. Crippled during a bombing raid, she’s damaged goods, but she’s too proud to accept a similarly damaged husband; she spends her days limping about Tokyo’s pleasure sector, gambling on bicycle races and dwelling on ruined possibility. Like Gish and Loy, Takamine is one of those performers whose talent seems to manifest on a plane apart from mere acting; her performance here is like an emanation of being, and she often wrings the subtlest of effects from simple byproducts of posture — her slump-shouldered limp is enough to carry the movie’s pathos. Offsetting Takamine’s sullenness are Keiji Sada and Yoshiko Kuga as the brother and his newly minted wife. Their relationship is a bit rocky — Kuga doesn’t feel accepted by the family — yet they embody a cautious optimism, a symbolic role which Kobayashi and writer Yoshiko Kusuda occasionally push too far, as when they have the couple stand on a rooftop and jabber stuff about hope and love. But they have some touching moments as well: when Kuga’s old beau shows up, it catalyzes their marital problems in a way that barely disturbs the surface calm which successful couples are so effective at maintaining. This lovely sequence, shaped by the simplest of gestures, is characteristic of Japanese social dramas of this period. It’s a reminder that “Sky” is part of one of the great movie traditions, a tradition whose main practitioners include Ozu and Naruse, and which has few equivalents in the arts (the work of Jane Austen is about the best comparison I can muster). There’s no denying that “Sky” is a bit wobbly, and it overstays its welcome by about fifteen minutes. (Ozu, by contrast, always knows precisely where to end a movie.) But during its best moments it’s a pleasure.

Both movies are available to stream via the Criterion Collection channel on Hulu+. Criterion has also just released a set of four early Kobayashi works on its Eclipse label. Worth checking out.

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Notes on Los Angeles, Part II: Mostly Architecture

Sir Barken Hyena writes:

The L.A. visit continued with a walking tour of glorious, or at least much photographed, Downtown Los Angeles. We had some highs and some lows with this one.

One “high” was certainly the LA City Hall, a 1928 Art Deco skyscraper that rates only lower than the Empire State and Chrysler buildings for instant recognition. Though for different reasons: it’s had many TV and movie appearances, the advantage of the home team I suppose. Still, nothing becomes iconic from mere exposure, it must have that memorable quality, and the LA City Hall certainly has that:

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Yep, Sgt Friday and Martian invaders spring to mind, right? But when you get beyond that in the presence of the real building you see a monument that perfectly encapsulates a moment in California’s history. Part of this is in obvious ways, such as the tile mosaics celebrating the young city’s industries: film, oil, aviation, agriculture. This is standard civic architecture stuff, though the vaguely Moorish style is interesting. Part of it is a more subtle symbolism: it’s an Egyptian obelisk topped by a Babylonian ziggurat supported by Greek columns, a kind of sampler of symbols of muscular state power and legitimacy. Modernist architects (we still call them that 100 years later!) would certainly connect that statement with Fascism, and maybe they have a point in a way. As pure art it doesn’t rate with the masterpieces of the style but it’s as expressive as a building can be. It radiates confidence, optimism, power, and most of all, the future.

What a gulf that separates this proud optimism from the cynical doubt that is Our Lady Catholic Cathedral just a few blocks and worlds away.

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This building expresses, well, not much really besides confusion and a pathetic “me too-ism”. It’s as though the church leaders who green-lighted this impressionistic fertilizer factory were trying to keep up with the hip and in crowd. Never mind that that crowd stands for the opposite of everything that’s central to the religion. Never mind that there’s a 2500 year history of sacred building design that’s at the center of Western culture. Never mind that a building that celebrates timeless truths has no need for innovation. Never mind that the people who are actually supposed to be served by this building have no clue about architecture, or modernism and probably wouldn’t care any way. This building was made for everyone who never will go there. It projects not optimism but a crushing lack of faith, in a building that exists to support faith.

Some redemption is found by entering the building. The space is still dominated by Brutal concrete but manages a semblance of the feeling of a true cathedral. But mostly it’s the tapestries that redeem. These depict a procession of saints portrayed with great realism, all facing to the central crucifix. Here’s one sample:

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There are about 20 of these, each face has a very distinct personality to it, and a unique expression of reverence. It’s a much needed human touch, perhaps made more powerful by the concrete horror that surrounds, though I doubt that was the intent. Other artworks, particularly the magnificent Italian carved altar and a powerful statue of Mary, only serve to embarrass our modern attempts at sacred art.

Just as futuristic as the City Hall but for different reasons is the Bradbury Building, fixture of Science Fiction. It’s two most famous uses were in Blade Runner as the home of J.F. Sebastian and his toys, and in the Outer Limits episode Demon With the Glass Hand, where Robert Culp hunts aliens in it’s cavernous atrium. In the flesh it’s more gay 90s than LA 2019 but no less spectacular for all that, with the iron work, carved filigree and glazed brick really dominating the space. We could only hang around the ground floor atrium because the building has actual tenants, so we couldn’t go hunting for Pris. Probably better that way…

Sir Barken on his way to retiring a few replicants

Sir Barken on his way to retiring a few replicants

Last on the list was the Walt Disney Concert Hall, by Starchitect Frank Gehry. Blowhard, Esq. advised that we see it in spite of my disparaging remarks from having seen it from a distance, and recommended taking the tour. Sadly we were too late for that but did walk around the building and to my surprise I found it quite a different thing when seen that way. It lost all of it’s “sheet metal shop floor” look and became a kind of trippy funhouse in chrome. Particularly nice was the rooftop garden featuring lots of exotic plants and trees, the colors of the vegetation glowing against the chrome. Here was a fitting contrast: organic against artificial, but also with an odd unity because the Gehry’s artificial shapes defied the grid and t-square for a kind of echo of the organic.

Sir Barken contemplates mortality and evanescence after icing a few miscreant replicants

Sir Barken contemplates mortality and evanescence after icing a few miscreant replicants

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  • Notes on Los Angeles, Part I is here.
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Quote of the Day

Blowhard, Esq. writes:

beowulf“A few miles from here
a frost-stiffened wood waits and keeps watch
above a mere; the overhanging bank
is a maze of tree-roots mirrored in its surface.
At night there, something uncanny happens:
the water burns. And the mere bottom
has never been sounded by the sons of men.
On its bank, the heather-stepper halts:
the hart in flight from pursuing hounds
will turn to face them with firm-set horns
and die in the wood rather than dive
beneath its surface. That is no good place.

When the wind blows up and stormy weather
makes clouds scud and the skies weep,
out of its depths a dirty surge
is pitched towards the heavens. Now help depends
again on you and on you alone.
The gap of danger where the demon waits
is still unknown to you. Seek it if you dare.
I will compensate you for settling the feud
as I did the last time with lavish wealth,
coffers of coiled gold, if you come back.”

Beowulf, translated by Seamus Heaney

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Immigration, Legal and Illegal

Paleo Retiree writes:

I don’t normally have much time for Anne Coulter, but this strikes me as a terrific column. Fact Du Jour: “During the three years from 2010 through 2012, immigrants have committed about a dozen mass murders in this country.”

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Quote of the Day

Blowhard, Esq. writes:

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With the rise of the state all of this [economic and political freedom] was swept away. For the past five or six millennia, nine-tenths of all people who ever lived did so as peasants or as members of some other servile caste or class. With the rise of the state, ordinary men seeking to use nature’s bounty had to get someone else’s permission and had to pay for it with taxes, tribute, or extra labor. The weapons and techniques of war and organized aggression were taken away from them and turned over to specialist-soldiers and policemen controlled by military, religious, and civil bureaucrats. For the first time there appeared on earth kings, dictators, high priests, emperors, prime ministers, presidents, governors, mayors, generals, admirals, police chiefs, judges, lawyers, and jailers, along with dungeons, jails, penitentiaries, and concentration camps. Under the tutelage of the state, human beings learned for the first time how to bow, grovel, kneel, and kowtow. In many ways the rise of the state was the descent of the world from freedom to slavery.

Marvin Harris, Cannibals and Kings: Origins of Culture

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Linkage

Fabrizio del Wrongo writes:

  • Foseti shares his heretical views on the defeat of communism. Or perhaps we should put scare quotes around defeat? I’ve often asked myself the same question: If it’s true that communism was defeated, how is it that the West keeps getting more communist-y?
  • “As I’ve occasionally noted, marketing is the dominant type of work in 21st Century America, and journalism is slowly turning into marketing criticism.” — Steve Sailer
  • Speaking of marketing, I’m consistently amazed by the names our overlords give to the imperial decrees bills they put forward. “The Marketplace Fairness Act” is a good one. Allow me to suggest a more appropriate name: “The Pay More for the Stuff You Buy Act.”
  • Rupert Everett is feelin’ the years.
  • As a lot of people have noticed, the Boston Marathon bombers are pretty sexy. Have any recent female criminals qualified as hotties? Amanda Knox and Casey Anthony spring to mind — or do they not qualify as criminals? Whatever they qualify as, I’d like to have a no-holds-barred, this-might-be-illegal threesome with the two of them. And how about that sexy Russian spy from a few years back?
  • Crisis averted? (H/T Glynn Marshes)
  • How do I get to be a member of a protected minority group? Hey, maybe my being shut out of protected minority groups constitutes its own sort of discrimination. Any enterprising lawyers out there want to take up my cause?
  • Not “The Onion.”
  • Dudes: How concerned are you about your “scrotal environment“?
  • More subversive animation from White Rabbit Radio. Great “performance” by “Hitler.”
  • Visualization of the Dark Enlightenment blogosphere.
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